Douglas Clark
-Head writer, The Inspiration Engine
-Head writer, The Inspiration Engine
Why do we do it? Sometimes I wonder what it is that keeps me
going? Perseverance, commitment, fortitude, diligence, they’re all great, but
if there isn’t something deeper, more basic powering those qualities, you won’t
really get that far in life. Quitters aren’t winners and Cheats usually get
caught, sooner or later. Sure they can live the high life for a while, but
there’s almost always a downfall for taking the quick and easy way; the cheap
and dishonest way.
Where does that drive and fuel for continuing on when things
get hard come from? Who and what, or how did it get instilled in me to not
quit, to never give up? I can point to good people in my life that taught me
lessons, some painful, some wonderful, but all valuable.
Maybe because when I was young, our family was so very poor,
not working, giving up, and slacking off meant hunger, homelessness, and
despair. Maybe it was after I got my own job and discovered I could provide for
myself. Maybe it was studying through college and realizing I could excel to
greater heights if I applied myself and kept learning. Maybe it was enduring
the hardships of Naval bootcamp, struggling to make it through despite fatigue,
distraction, the unknown, homesickness, loneliness. Maybe it was when I truly
was homeless and vowed to never let that happen again. Maybe it was being a
single parent, knowing a child depended on me for everything and I held the
responsibility of teaching and nurturing alone. Maybe it was when I fell in
love again.
Maybe, just possibly, my whole life is one great lesson in
understanding that perseverance and fortitude are developed over time, given
the right circumstances and influences. I may never reach a level of ultimate
success or fortune. I may continue to fail just as much as I succeed. If I’m a
good person and that karmatic energy is passed on, perhaps the net gain of my
life is more than just mediocrity.
If that is so, I wonder just how other people manage, when
they don’t have the same influences I had. Some people I’ve met excel despite
mistreatment, abuse, neglect and disregard. Others flounder even after being
cared for, loved, nurtured and respected.
I don’t think there is one answer. I believe certain
qualities innate in people can enhance or sabotage their lives, but influences,
by others and circumstances, events and chance also play a role in driving
their lives forward. I guess though, in the end, we all have a choice.
Despite
and in spite of all that we see and hear, experience and learn, choosing to
continue down a path we know and understand to be right is the only real power
we actually have. Like Neo in the Matrix, I choose to persevere. It’s my
choice. That is my ‘why.’
What’s yours?
Thanks for reading.
Questions and comments are welcome.