Did you ever think for a moment that what you really wanted in life
might just be too hard to get? Did you ever think it would be easier to just
dream about what you want instead of actually doing all the hard work involved
in actually earning it? I’ll tell you straight out, yes, I’ve thought those
things. I’ve been in love with the dream of being a published, successful
writer for so long, sometimes I find myself indulging in the fantasy of
writing, rather than actually DOING it. I’d imagine elaborate scenarios where
I’m accepting an award for an amazing piece of literature I created, or signing
a multi-million dollar book deal. I’ve got a good imagination so you can assume
the fantasy was pretty impressive. Now I’ve also sat and contemplated all the
things involved in making those fantasies a reality. You know what it comes
down to? A shit ton of hard work. That’s right. Making a dream a reality
requires determination, persistence, perseverance and a lot of backbreaking,
mind bendingly hard work. So, can you do it? Do you have what it takes to make
your far flung dreams something real?
My answer to that question is YES. It has to be otherwise I’ve just
been lying to myself all these years. I know my abilities are good enough to
accomplish my goals. It’s a funny thing about dreams, though. They can help you
through some really tough times but if you let them take over, or just fester,
they can become an oppressive thing that weights you down instead of lifting
you up. Sometimes the thing that stands in the way of your dream isn’t under your
control at all. The relationship you have with your dreams can be a complex
one. I think Langston Hughes’ poem, A Dream Deferred sums it up best.
What happens to a dream
deferred?
Does it dry up
Like a raisin in the sun?
Or fester like a sore--
And then run?
Does it stink like rotten meat?
Or crust and sugar over--
like a syrupy sweet?
Maybe it just sags
like a heavy load.
Or does it explode?
There are so many courses your life can take; correspondingly, your
dreams can shift as well. The main point is if you don’t do anything to make
those dreams a reality, they become a negative. You will become disheartened
and cynical. Part of the reason achieving your dreams feels so good is because of
the hard work involved. Knowing that your effort is what made that dream come
true is a reward unto itself, above and beyond the dream. Realizing a dream can
be fantastic, but along the way you’ll develop self-reliance and perseverance.
Those are qualities that can make almost any dream a reality. So instead of day
dreaming (like I used to do) get out there and do the hard work necessary to
make that dream come true.
I challenge you. Recognize your one true dream. Visualize it and
know that it is what you want. List all the steps needed to bring that dream
into reality. Then, do it. Do it today! And tell me, what's your step one?
Thanks for reading. Questions and comments are welcome.
